交朋友要大胆，要热情和微笑，要敞开心扉的真诚，要学会站在别人的角度思考，要深刻了解自己。交朋友的第一步，就是大胆和别人打招呼，说第一句话，才会有更近的接触。不要羞于主动去和他人交际认识。
当我们用微笑面对他人的时候，对别人充满热情，别人便很容易对你产生好感，觉得你是不错的适合交朋友的人，后面就会更容易交谈。
交朋友的时候，要做到诚实，告诉对方你内心的想法或者真实感受，对方也会与你倾诉，这样大家的交流更多了，也会更加彼此信任。
要去找适合自己的朋友，合适的朋友才能相处得更融洽。不建议为了找朋友去刻意改变自己，这样反而会让交朋友的过程中更累更艰难。
交朋友的方法
It's hard to make friends if you stay at home alone all the time. Go out of the house and do things to keep in touch with other people. It's easier to make friends in this way.
Don't be afraid to show people what you are really good at. Talk about the things you like and do best. People can be interested in you if there's something interesting about you.
Watch their eyes when you talk to them. Through this way they can find it easier to talk to you, or people may think you are not interested im them and may not be interested in you.
Be a good listener let people talk about themselves before talking about" me, me,me. "Ask them lots of questions. show an interest in their answers.
Try to make friends with the kind of people you really like,respect, and admire,not just with those who are easy to meet. Be friendly to a lot of people. You will have a bigger group of people to choose from and have more chance for making friends.
如果你总是一人呆在家里，很难交上朋友。走出房门，做一些事情，保持和其他人的联系。这样的话，交朋友就更容易了。
不要害怕向人们展示你的优点，谈论你喜欢的和你最会做的事情。如果你有一些有趣的事情，人们就会对你感兴趣。
当你和别人讲话的时候，看着他们的眼睛，通过这种方式，他们会发现更容易和你交谈，否则人们会认为你对他们不感兴趣，那他们对你就不感兴趣。
成为一个好的听众，在谈论“我，我，我”之前让他们谈谈他们自己。问他们大量问题，表明对他们的答案感兴趣。
尽量和你真正喜欢，尊敬，敬仰的人交朋友。不要仅仅和那些总是见面的人交朋友，要对更多的人有好，这样你就会有更多的人群可以选，并且有更多的交朋友的机会。
